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Some of us may have been brought up in a culture that is sparing in its praise. Worse still we might have been subjected to constant criticism.

At the very beginning of his ministry the Father publicly acknowledges Jesus in words of delight. Affirmation, being told we have done well, or can do well, is important for everyone. If we have done our very best, it is good to know our efforts are appreciated. If we face a big challenge, it is much easier if we know someone believes in us and is supporting us.

Matthew, Mark and Luke all give an account in their Gospels of Jesus’ baptism by John and in each we hear Jesus affirmed by a heavenly voice. As he sets out on his journey of teaching and healing, making God’s love known, Jesus is assured of love and support. His ministry would be a big challenge, ending in confrontation with the authorities and crucifixion, but as he begins he is assured that he is the Beloved, one empowered to serve.

Mary Ann Bird, a woman born with multiple handicaps, tells in her memoir, The Whisper Test, of the affirmation of her teacher who, in a school hearing test, whispered to Mary Ann, ‘I wish you were my little girl’. These words provided an affirmation that changed her whole outlook of a ridiculed and struggling child. This story is freely available on the internet: The Whisper Test – Long version; Concise version.